All of these are examples of coping mechanisms people use to handle the pressures and difficulties they experience, but none of them cures the root issue. If you have money problems, for instance, avoiding the mailbox that may contain bills will not solve your financial issues.
Some researchers see a direct correlation between increased pressure and coping mechanisms that result in alcoholism, drug addiction, divorce, abuse, and other social problems. Is there something that can free us from these worries and tensions, so we can better handle them in a healthy way?
Jesus confronted head-on the issue of handling everyday problems. He said that people should give God—who already knows their needs—the central place in their lives, and these concerns will then be cared for. “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need” (Matthew 6:33).
This advice runs counter to our inclinations. Many of us get frenzied over our problems—both real and imagined. We don’t feel we have time for God because our energy becomes depleted by simply coping—just getting by in this crazy world. But when we make God our number one priority, he gives us the resources and strength to successfully face the demands of each day.
You assign God first place by believing that although your sin has separated you from him (Romans 3:23), Jesus Christ, the Son of God, sacrificed his life to pay the debt for your sin (John 3:16).
Admit to God your need for him and trust in Jesus as the one who rescues you from sin. Give God control of your life and live as the Bible, God’s Word, instructs you.
When you do that, you have obeyed the command to seek his Kingdom above all else, and God will provide the rest. He becomes your Lord, and his strength will empower you to meet whatever problems you will face.
The gospel isn’t a coping mechanism. It is the truth that will set you free.
